I realized how it had always been about me. My family has always worried about me, checking up on me every second, how am I feeling, am I eating well, have I been sleeping well, have I taken my meds, how my friends treated me, make sure I go to every appointment. Because of my illness I think the focus is drawn only on me. And I feel bad that sometimes I feel like my brothers didn't get that kind of attention as much. I rarely ask how they've been doing. I feel bad that I didn't get to help them first hand and knew later that they've been thru some shit. And now I feel like a bad sister. I hope they know I love them and I care so muchh like so muchh I would die for them in a heartbeat. No doubt at all.
Life is not just about you, it's about people around you too. While you still have the chance, ask them how they've been doing. Ask if they're ok. Show that you care. I didn't get to do this with my late father and I have lived my life with regrets since he passed. And now I realized I'm about to make the same mistake. See, God puts us in a situation for us to learn. Nothing that He planned for us is useless. I've learned a lot from the past, and now it's time to improve. Just wanna share this with everyone cause we often forget to value what's in front of us until they're gone. That person right in front of you might be looking just fine but you will never know what's deep inside. So, just ask that one question. Just ask. It's that simple. 🤍 How are you?
